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Coffee Chats ☕ June 22, 2025

Let's do a quick thought experiment: Picture yourself standing at an intersection—black asphalt, gently-cracked concrete sidewalks, weeds pushing through, with some traffic lights, signs, cameras, and a few cars stopped, waiting, with others whizzing by. There are shimmering, bright-white bicycle lanes and pedestrian crosswalks; other people are passing through, too. There's a business, a drugstore, or grocery, maybe, on one corner, and a fence-topped retaining wall on another, with grassy...

Hey friends, You may have noticed, as of late (how could you not?), that my newsletters have been both sporadic and intentionally vague (bordering on frustratingly opaque). Well. No longer. I have three truths to tell you. This first truth addresses some ambiguity about a certain secret project I hinted at the end of last year. The long and short of it is that last fall, after a period of discernment, I decided to apply to a single Master of Fine Arts (MFA) program in Creative Writing so that...

Hey there, I’ll start off by acknowledging, here at the top, that I did miss the first newsletter this month—which is more or less what I want to talk about today. I have two versions of an explanation for you: The short version is that things have been bad lately, and something had to give. The long version is that things have been really bad lately, for a lot of reasons, and my capacity to write, and to write about my writing, or really to do much of anything, has dwindled to little more...

Hey! Nice to be back! The last month has been...well—not what I expected it to be. My personal life has been hiking a series of steep peaks and valleys; my professional life is exhausting, a disheartening downward slog, and precarious in the best of circumstances; my creative life is strained, as a result. My month of focusing on the novel and easing back into my routines was not what I'd hoped, is what I'm saying. But! But. But— I had a good month, actually. I've been thinking about and...

Hello! How are you today? Good, I hope—maybe enjoying some nice weather, or just a lazy Sunday at the end of a long week. I've had a lovely weekend myself—a respite, after several difficult weeks—filled with friends and coffee and music and movies and games. A bit of a palate cleanser; a reset; a renewal. March often feels that way to me. I know that spring doesn't actually start for a few weeks more, but already it feels like the beginning of something new, or the end of something old, or at...

Hey there! You may notice that this is coming on Monday instead of our regularly scheduled Sunday meeting—but since it's a holiday weekend, it's kind of a tomato-tomato thing, right? Right?? Well, not really. I fully meant to send this out yesterday, but got sidetracked for a few reasons: Sarah and I spent a really lovely weekend with family and friends in St. Louis; I'm still just really, really drained as a result of current events; and I feel a tad silly, writing this newsletter about...

Happy Groundhog Day! Or, perhaps, unhappy groundhog day. The little guy saw his shadow, if you hadn't already heard—and honestly, same. I feel that. Things appear cold and dark, at present. Okay. Let's get into it. I have an inconsequential confession to make. Not like a fun, "this is a set up for a big personal achievement!" type of confession, mind you; more a "hey, I've been kind of low-key lying" type of thing. I didn't write a word of fiction in January—or really work on my novel much at...

Hey there! For many of you this will be coming very late in the day (again!)—that's on me! It's been a busy, busy couple of weeks (not for fun reasons—just work and life stuff), so writing the newsletter has gotten bumped down my list of priorities once or twice (or several times). I promise it won't become a habit! Anyhow: In this edition of the newsletter you'll find a couple links to a blog post for Coffee Chats Wrapped 2024—finally! As with last year, I hope that it's interesting to you...

Happy New Year! Let me start off by addressing the (somewhat small) elephant in the room: I missed the last newsletter! Endless apologies—between tying up some lingering projects, preparing for the holidays, and traveling to India for the wedding of some dear friends, I lost the thread on getting the newsletter out. I promise it won't happen again (probably)! Rest assured that Coffee Chats Wrapped 2024 will still appear as a blog post on my website (sometime in the next month, I think) and...

Good evening! Sorry to bother you so late in the day! I hope your holiday weekend has been lovely—filled with family, friends, good food, and time for relaxation. Mine has been, and as a result, today’s newsletter will be brief. I’ll leave you with just two things here at the top. First is a reminder, for those who’ve been around a while, and an announcement for those who are new: Coffee Chats Wrapped will be returning this year! The format of the next and final newsletter of 2024 will change...